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I felt like I was in the twilight zone.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://solifegoeson.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/02/pm1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>pm1</image:title><image:caption>Instead of a "hey, we noticed....can you explain what happened here" this is what I received. </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://solifegoeson.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/02/pm3.jpg</image:loc><image:title>pm3</image:title><image:caption>I really had no clue what was going on. </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://solifegoeson.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/02/pm4.jpg</image:loc><image:title>pm4</image:title><image:caption>thought i was adding them first to TRA....not sure why I even thought that. </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://solifegoeson.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/02/pm5.jpg</image:loc><image:title>pm5</image:title><image:caption>I looked back at their screen shot for me and remembered i had tried to add someone but didn't know it was to admin. </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://solifegoeson.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/02/pm6.jpg</image:loc><image:title>pm6</image:title><image:caption>This person is absolutley right with what they are saying. This is why I understood why I was removed from the admin group. </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://solifegoeson.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/02/pm7.jpg</image:loc><image:title>pm7</image:title><image:caption>Understanding what 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